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Lack of interest in girls that i want to fix. Hi people of reddit. So i have a question: I'm kind of an attractive guy judging by how girls are around me, i have plenty of opportunities to seduce and have sex, only problem is, i feel like it's all a waste of my time and energy. I never was that way before, i wanted sex all the time with no. Boyfriend 26M Family Has No Interest In Meeting Me (24F) I’ve been dating my significant other for about 15 months. We both are living at home due to COVID and live 30 minutes apart. He met my parents during week 2 of our relationship and has met my siblings + come to my house numerous times since. She (f21) lost interest in me (m23) out of the blue. So, i met a girl last week and we talked for some days and then we go out on the saturday and slept together till sunday, she was lovely and everything i wanted till yeasterday, in some moment she started to ghost me, and i get to talk with her only hours and hours later, and she said 'i ain.
I notice a lot of people in this subreddit conflate introversion with shyness and/or anxiety, these are quite different things but I hope people reading this know that so I don't have to explain it.
I have never been in a relationship, a girl has tried holding my hand once but I recoiled because I thought it was disgusting, I just generally don't like physical contact.
Plenty of people have asked me out but I swiftly decline.
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However, I suffer from a variation of bipolar 1 so when I am manic I become a highly sociable and a life of the party person. When I drop to normal and realise all the stupid stuff I have done I ghost anybody I seemed to have remotely pursued. In hospital I have been told I become flirtatious with the younger nurses and patients my age.
It is not that I find women repulsive. I do appreciate beauty in women, I am regularly in awe at how pretty some of them can be, but I don't have any interest beyond that.
Are any of you guys the same? Do you not have any interest in relationships?
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NOTE: I do not suffer from social anxiety. I am told I present as a very confident, playful and sometimes strident person when serious. My social tolerance is quite short though, like you guys.
Thanks.
I don't know what is wrong with me, ever since I left university, I have had no interest in women at all. I don't get the urge to talk to women and when I do, I end up making excuses as to why I take ages to reply. I've had a couple of shitty relationships but I don't think that is the reason. I am also not gay in the slightest so not that either. I can't explain it at all, I just get really bored of talking to girls. I don't even really think about sex that much. Last night I made up some bullshit to some girl I was supposed to meet and ended up letting her down. I ended up masturbating and telling her I was going asleep lol. She has been texting me all day to ask if I am okay and I can't even be bothered to reply. She is a nice girl that I have known for ages and is easily an 8 or 9 but I just don't seem to have any interest in her or anyone else. Only when I'm shit faced lol.
Last week I even stood a girl up at the cinema because I said some family issues come up (lie). All that goes through my head is, 'I can't be bothered to entertain you'
I used to be a known local music artist when I was younger (not now) and got a lot of attention (not now). I've loved one girl that ended badly. I never had to do much chasing when I was younger or at university. I hate the chase, It bores me. I think I am also very much of a mans man. I also like a really unique type of music and it doesn't appeal to many girls from my area. I can't bring myself to talk about bullshit that I don't care about. I won't sit there and talk about soaps or celebrities. I'm not that kind of person. Now it seems that every girl I talk to end up boring me. No matter what they are like, I know it's a bad problem but I don't know how to fix it. I think I must have some kind of mental health issue and I have come to accept that. All of my friends are getting married and having kids and I feel like I need to do the same and settle down but I really do not have the desire to. I sometimes meet a girl I know for sex but to be honest, I don't have sex with her to cure sexual frustration. It's more so my friends don't think I've ended up being a sad lonely guy, which is te reality lol. I think I am very image aware but even then, there is no desire to be with anyone else. Does anyone have a similar problem or am I alone in this?